James Priory, Headmaster at Tonbridge School, on transformative mentorship and why joy is essential in teaching
In the latest episode of Heads & Tales, Henry Faber is joined by James Priory, Headmaster at Tonbridge School since August 2018. James brings a compelling story to independent education - from his beginnings as an assisted place beneficiary at King Edward's Birmingham to becoming the first internally appointed headmaster at Portsmouth Grammar School in almost 200 years.
With a first-class English degree from Lincoln College, Oxford, James has built his career on a foundation of academic excellence and genuine passion for young people. Beyond his headship at Tonbridge, James chairs the governing body education committee of Marsh Academy and serves as a governor at multiple schools, while also sitting on HMC's education committee. His love for choral music, theatre, and performance runs deep - both in his personal life and in his approach to education.
🎙️ Episode highlights
James opens up about the transformative power of mentoring, particularly his relationship with Tim Hands (former Winchester College headmaster), and how being mentored has shaped his approach to developing others.
He shares a wonderfully quirky anecdote from his school days involving a dramatic fall during a Huckleberry Finn rehearsal that taught him more about caring and commitment than any lecture could.
James reflects on the toughest moments of headship, from losing community members to navigating the unprecedented challenge of COVID-19 school closures.
A heartwarming highlight emerges as he describes watching a former student perform Anthony at The Globe - a full-circle moment that captures the lasting impact of great teaching.
He offers his "unpopular opinion" on the enduring value of chapel in school life, defending its role in creating rhythm, reflection, and community.
His essential advice for educators? "Enjoy it and be seen to enjoy it" - finding genuine joy in teaching because if you're not enjoying it, neither will your students.
James discusses Tonbridge School's focus on storytelling and their informal motto ‘only connect’, exploring how they're preparing young men for an increasingly complex world.